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Miami's Best Marriage and Relationship Coach
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Mon - Fri Sat - Sun - Phone:
Main - 305-986-2905
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- 12755 SW 116th Ter Miami, FL 33186
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- Stop The Marriage Counseling Blame Game! Emotionally Connected Couples And Marriage Counseling In Just Three Sessions Most of my marriage counseling clients have been married for 7 to 10 years, have 2 children and feel like there is something missing in their lives. There is a itch they want to scratch, but they cannot reach it. When they dated and married their partner they got along wonderfully. They were satisfied sexually, felt connected, enjoyed intimacy and they honestly felt they found the “one” for them. Soon after marriage the first child arrived and they were caught up in all the changes. The joy, happiness, sleep deprivation and new stress of managing parenthood and work began to slowly decrease that intimacy over time. The tingles Wife used to feel when Husband would hold her hand have now turned into disgust at the thought of him touching her again. Sex turns from pleasure into blame. Little efforts to improve here and there are not appreciated or reinforced. They are met with annoyance. A feeling of too little too late. Or are interpreted as she is just trying to manipulate you and you respond with scorn. What was hot, passionate, and connected has turned cold, remorseful and often my clients feel ashamed of their bodies. Her’s has shifted greatly after parenthood. He has let himself go, just trying to keep up with the demands and stresses of life. Spouses, trying to be perfect for each other, forget who they really are over time. Dreams, desires, and fantasies that do not fit the definition of “perfect” are packed tightly into additional baggage that is carried around, but never used. You start to feel suffocated and trapped. You love your children, but wonder if your marriage will survive or if you will be able to survive in your marriage? Should you sacrifice your happiness for your kids or should you be selfish and look after yourself first? Deep down you know you want both to be a great parent and have a good relationship with each other. You’ve both become so withdrawn you tip toe around each other fearful of starting a fight. You walk on eggshells to avoid tripping the pent up outrage in both of you. All the excess baggage often gets to be so much you join the one in four americans on happy pills, just so you can suffer thru your job, pay your mortgage and put food on the table for your kids. In all these cases, the original marriage based on infatuation faded and there was nothing left to take its place. Partners will go outside the marriage (infidelity) to get their needs met because they become to afraid to communicate their desires, needs, wants, and fantasies (which they may or may not want to act upon) with their partner until it is too late. The stress of infidelity or divorce force spouses to do the work they are too afraid to do before it's too late. The secret to a happy, productive, fulfilling marriage is keeping a clear agreement on the goal and purpose of your marriage. The longer you are married, the more often you and your partner will have to review that purpose and modify it. The longer the marriage, the bigger the scope of those modifications. While there are several purposes that can keep a marriage strong, the most powerful I have found is the joy of mutual parenting. I founded Parent Marriage.com as a couples and marriage counseling resource for couples who both find great joy in raising their children, but are driving each other crazy! If there is one green leaf left alive in the relationship, the marriage can be revived. If you and your partner do the work and still decide at the end that divorce is the best option, you will save thousands of dollars in legal fees if you both rati
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- Just 2 miles west of the turnpike off SW 120 Street and 127th Ave. 2 Miles East of the Costco at London Square.
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- University of Miami Professional Coaching Program
General Info
Matthew Hoelscher is one of the leading voices in helping couples define marriage beyond boredom, beyond love, towards meaningful purpose. Matthew Hoelscher is a sex and relationship coach who helps couples find self-mastery by making marriage a living practice instead of just a legal agreement. Everyone assumes to know what marriage is, yet few actually define their commitments and agreements until after infidelity or worse a divorce lawyer. Matthew helps couples put everything on the table, create a vision, and define agreements around what is important and what is optional for each partner to deepen their self-actualization. Matthew brings together progressive ideas, personal experience, loving unconditional acceptance, and accredited coaching to create marriages of trust, love and growth for both the parents to be passed on to their children. He also maintains an extensive library of historic sexual teachings of Tantric, Taoist, Kabbalah and Christian Gnostic mystery schools. His academic qualifications include Bachelors of Liberal Studies at Iowa State University, Professional Coaching Certification from the University of Miami and accreditation from the International Coach Federation. He is certified to assess Emotional Intelligence using the EQi 2.0 from MHS. He is also a Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM), cave and deep wreck exploration diver, sailor, avid photographer, and has read over 500 books in 7 years placing him in the top 1% of readers worldwide. During the week he runs a thriving coaching practice at his home office in Miami, Florida. On the weekends, he runs workshops on health and wellbeing at his personal retreat center. When not busy saving marriages, he is taking his beautiful wife and twin boys on adventures in the Everglades or the Atlantic Ocean, gardening, yoga, meditation, or mountain biking.