This is a very good answer, and very siialmr to the one I gave not too long ago on my blog. Another thought relates to the husband-wife relationship being an imitation of the relationship between Christ and His Church. I've reminded men they are to submit to and obey God, and women submit to their husbands. As a woman, how much do you want your husband to submit to God? Your answer might be a good model for how you might submit to him.